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10 Texts to NEVER Send To a Woman

If you’re struggling to establish a positive relationship with a woman, the way you communicate via text may be a factor. Of course that there could be many others (sorry, but it is true), however, keep reading in case texting is one of them.

In today’s world, texting is a primary form of communication, and a woman who doesn’t know you well will form opinions about you based on your texts. It’s important to be mindful of the words you use, when you send texts, and how many texts you send. Avoid sending needy, desperate, or inappropriate messages that may upset or frustrate her and harm your relationship.

A single mistake in your communication via text can end in disaster. This doesn’t mean you cannot be flirty and daring when texting your partner, of course. But, to improve your chances of building a healthy relationship, it’s important to be mature and establish some rules for texting.


Basic Rules for Texting a Woman

There are a few reasons why it’s important to establish basic rules for texting in any relationship.

Clear communication: It can help ensure that both parties are on the same page when it comes to communication via text. This can help reduce misunderstandings.

Respect for boundaries: It helps ensure that one person is not constantly bombarding the other with texts, which can be intrusive and disrespectful.

Maintaining a balance: Texting is just one form of communication, and it’s important to maintain a balance between texting and other forms of communication such as in-person conversations and phone calls.

Creating healthy habits: It can encourage both parties to be mindful of their words and actions, and to always consider the other person’s feelings.

So essentially these are the basic rules:

  • Think before you text
  • Show respect and be understanding
  • Know the difference between texting and calling/facetime
  • Avoid sending too many messages or too often
  • Respect her privacy and personal space
  • Be mindful of the tone of your texts
  • Don’t be too demanding or pushy
  • Avoid using abbreviations or slang words that she may not understand
Texting a woman

Texts You Must NEVER send her

There is no negotiation here. Don’t send anything like this, ever. Forget it. Stop it.

1.”Will you send me a naughty picture?”

Oh please don’t do that. She will do it if she wants to and feels comfortable with that.

2.”And so… how many men have you…”

Stop That Now. Don’t text that. Don’t you dare. That is an in-person conversation ffs.

3. “… that sounds very much like my ex…”

Don’t mention your Ex. Simple as. Don’t be a fool. (this should be number one)

4. “I am not sure what I want”

This cannot be more off-putting let me tell you that. Regardless of what the conversation is about. What you want in life, for dinner, for Xmas, as a job…whatever. Again, convo to have in person and not over text. It can be taken the wrong way (and it will).

5. “Thing is that friend of yours is a bit…”

Don’t. Friends are sacred. Don’t touch them. Not over text anyway. The moment will come to talk about friends and family and this and that. Not a topic to text about.

6. “I am not good at…”

W-H-A-T-E-V-E-R. Just don’t say that. Too much out there about self-esteem and self-value. Don’t play the victim role, please. You are enough, more than enough, regardless the circumstances. Self-esteem is attractive.

7. “Yes, you look like you’ve gained some weight but I still love you”

OMG, please don’t ever mention weight. No need to. It will end up in tears.

8. “You know, men are like this…you don’t understand”

Excuse me???? You are telling me what I know or don’t about men (in fact whatever but hey ho). No, don’t play the Venus/Mars game. Not over text anyway. Don’t macho-man her.

9. “I am so sorry, honestly, forgive me if I…”

Don’t get to that point. I am not saying you cannot use the word ‘Sorry’ of course. Just don’t over do it. Don’t sound like a lost soul begging for mercy. Don’t be too apologetic, therefore watch what you text before sending. If you make a mistake, one sorry is enough.

10. “I promise that…”

Listen…don’t promise anything. You know? Texting in the comfort of your warm home can be too comfortable. Don’t let yourself go too much in case it ends in disaster. Potential broken promises and a text proving it!

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